About Me
They say life is what happens when you’re not looking, and I’ve been blind for most of my existence. Like most of us, the first half of my life was mostly a blur, unshapen clay waiting to be molded. I thought I knew so much, and I was nothing more than a confused child learning how to love herself. It wasn’t until my first child was born that I learned the true meaning of Love.
My name is Nicole and I am a 41 yr
old wife and proud mom. Like most women
my age, I’ve seen a thing or two that life has to offer and had to adjust
course more than once. I never expected
to be on my second marriage or to be on this journey, and it’s funny how life
gives you the unexpected doesn’t it? I
didn’t believe in myself enough to ask for more for myself and from myself. It
took seeing the gleam in my children’s eyes, to give me the courage I needed to
break free from the narrative of mediocrity in which I had placed myself and
started a new life to find personal happiness. I changed my lifestyle and started
eating healthy and working out consistently and the results have been simply
amazing. With this I discovered my new passion for health, fitness and
modeling. I feel better now at my age than I did in my 20’s and I’m happier now
than I’ve ever been.
For most of my adult life I have been
a bartender and let me tell you, people will often share with their bartender
more personal stories than they do with their therapist and I loved it. I
learned over the years how a simple smile can brighten someone’s day,
especially when life hasn’t been kind.
“I think the saddest people always
try their hardest to make people happy because they know what it’s like to feel
absolutely worthless and they don’t want anyone else to feel like that.” –
Robin Williams. I discovered how true
that was when looking back on my time as a bartender and my first
marriage. I often did what was needed to
make others happy and didn’t concentrate enough on myself.
In learning to love myself, I found a
man who loves me the way I deserve to be loved. He also shares my interests and
values and helps me to become a better woman.
We live a life that makes us happy, and we raise our family in a manner
that fits our values. I learned more
from my mistakes than I ever did from my successes, and I became the woman I
always wanted to be and the wife he deserves. Like most people, I had my own
demons to overcome to become that person and I am thankful for the opportunity
to use my experiences to help others overcome theirs.
Now, in addition to being a wife and
mother, I build custom fitness and nutrition programs to help people feel young
and healthy again. For some people, they
have never had the body they wanted and for others, they want to reverse the
wheels of time and I am here to help. I
want to help people to Live Their Best Life possible. I want to thank
you for supporting me and coming on this journey with me. I’ve learned to
adjust to this ever changing world and I am thankful for the life lessons I
have learned. Thank you for coming to my
page and I hope you find something that helps put a smile on your face.
